ARE MEN REALLY PIGS? (Frazer Chronicles)
I just read an article in Aljazeera, penned by Naomi Wolf entitled "Is pornography driving men crazy?" I for one can respond with a hearty "nnnnnnooooo!" Actually I have watched some porn on my computer, you guys ought to try it, it's graphic.....STOP, sorry I lost my composure for a minute, maybe this Wolf broad has something going with her "driving men crazy thing."
Pornography, in my opinion, isn't driving men crazy, men in fact are becoming more aware of women and respect them more then ever before in history. That said, I have to admit that "men have a long road to travel before they truly are aware of women in the world, and what they really mean in a man's life.
In her article, Wolf talks about "highly visible men in recent years have behaved in sexually self-destructive ways." Wolf contends that "powerful men have long been sexually voracious, but in the pasts were more careful," and continues that those "high profile" men were more discreet and generally used better judgement to "cover their tracks."
Ms. Wolf is citing her opinion, "which she is entitled to," which is based on flawed information. I can name many governmental leaders who were "un-discreet" with regards to their extra-marital activities. These long ago men had the benefit of security guards, handlers, political advisers, and..... the press.
Leaders deal with a passion in their lives that only they know about. Almost every issues that they confront in their lives is a test of wills, a test of whether they can evoke their will on others, a test of how strong that they are, "that's every day." So, even though people might not agree with the philandering, "I certainly don't," these men naturally "tend" to force themselves on mostly receptive women.
There isn't any medical study necessary to "figure out if men's brain's are being rewired by being exposed to pornography." The resounding answer is "no," mixed in with a loud "how dare you." It's like using an excuse for an activity that to many, many men is unacceptable to our gender and is demeaning.
I have been around three separate "gang bangs" in my time, non of which I might add I partook in. I found it repugnant to "do my business after others had already done theirs." It wasn't that I was so moral, or was above those others, I simply found the activity rather disgusting.
The one incident in particular left a lasting impression on me, one that I will take to the grave. It happened in Germany, when I was stationed there as an Army medic. In a medical train car, 2 women were at either end of the car, and a line of waiting young soldier's "waited their turn" to get a little.
I decided right then and there that my sex with the opposite sex would be a one on one deal, and something that I was unwilling to share with others. For Naomi Wolf to intimate that watching pornographic "smokers, as they were called some 90 years ago," and DVD's today, are breaking down men's resistance, and fueling a wanton sex urge in a man is absolute crap.
Men by and large are cognoscente of women, and women's rights, we many get a little "horn Dogged" by what women ware when out in public, or surely at the beach, but we can control our inhibitions or impulses pretty well, "thank you very much."
Those men, or "boys" that give in to their impulses should get exactly what they deserve, a stint in jail, bunking with Willie, or Percy to get "straight," if you know what I mean. To anecdotally connect the increase in pornographic consumption among young men with the increase impotence and premature ejaculation of the same is, preposterous.
Young men forever have had premature problems, when it concerned to the opposite sex, it's the nature of the courtship, the circle of life, "if you will." It's how young women began to establish their superiority to the man species, and also how they learn to keep that little "secret" of superiority to themselves until they need it to reign in a man.
It's a silly game played between men and women, one that both know is being played, those that play it better have more partners, those that don't, "men" can resort to barbaric and brutal activity towards women, it's not a "rewiring" of the brain by pornography, it's an emotionally weak individual, weak in life and weak with people.
According to medical studies, pornography rewards the brain with short term dopamine boost, much the same as snorting cocaine or winning at the gambling tables. So that explains why I feel so good before and during sex, and tired as hell after the deed is done, huh, I never knew that I was a cocaine addict.
Look Naomi, and all you clinical (experts) who are doing all these studies, "I hate to burst your bubble," but men and women have been running after one another since the beginning of time, and the big reason why the Garden of Edan was a "bust" of possibly the very first sex education program of man-kind.
There is almost zero the number of women that want to be violently, violated, most want to be wined and dinned and romanced before they give it up. In many, many cases, the end result is, that they "don't give it up," and the majority of men except that result, and go home and play with their little "winker."
All the research in the world, all the clinical discoveries will not change a fringe part of society that has always been there and sadly always will be. Just because there might be more clinical studies going on doesn't mean there are more jerks tearing women's cloths off